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Books: Rapport. The Four Ways to Read People

T-Rex, Lion, Mouse, or Monkey — Which One are You?

Judith Dawson
British Journal of General Practice 2020; 70 (701): 599. DOI: https://doi.org/10.3399/bjgp20X713741
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GP, Weavers Medical Centre, Kettering, Northamptonshire; Clinical Lead for Leonard Cheshire, a social care charity. Email:
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Emily Alison, Laurence Alison Vermilion, 2020, PB, 368pp, £14.99, 978-1785042065
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Emily and Laurence Alison are clinical psychologists with extensive experience in interviewing criminal suspects, including suspected terrorists and murderers. This new book distils their approach at gaining rapid rapport and information gathering in difficult situations or under time pressure, and has many valuable lessons for primary care clinicians. It offers insights into why poor rapport may cause consultations to fail, and why we may be unable to help patients make changes in their lives that would improve their health outcomes. It is also helpful in recognising how to manage situations of distress caused by failures in healthcare settings and dealing with aggressive or angry individuals.

They propose the use of the acronym HEAR: Honesty, Empathy, Autonomy, and Respect, and illustrate it with well-chosen examples ranging from trying to obtain vital evidence regarding bomb plots to dealing with truculent teenagers. These skills could be transposed to the consultation, allowing a more comprehensive evaluation of the goals and perspective of a patient before entering into discussions on treatment. They also explore the dangers of reactance as a result of the use of the ‘righting reflex’, where the interviewer tries to repetitively influence changes in the subject’s behaviour. They suggest that techniques offering a range of options are more likely to promote change than directly giving advice or criticism. A further useful acronym is SONAR — the use of Simple reflections, Offering alternatives ‘on the one hand’, No arguing, Affirmations, and Reframing, in order to gain rapport and motivate.

Emphasis is placed strongly on autonomy and respect for others even when there are situations of personal antipathy. Further sections explore modelling of behaviour based on four illustrative animal groups — T-Rex, Lion, Mouse, and Monkey — and allow a plotting exercise of communication styles and reflective work on flexibility, enabling change from one style to another in different circumstances. This also encompasses issues that may be experienced working within teams and relating to coping with dominant characters in the workplace.

They observe that ‘only you control you’, and therefore it would make sense to invest in our interpersonal skills in order to improve our own self-awareness and outcomes for our relationships with patients, colleagues, and family. This is a useful addition to the established works on the consultation, and offers new insights to both doctors in training and the established clinician from a psychological approach.

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