The generated themes can be seen as general in terms of living with dementia; we discuss how each of these manifests within the primary care setting or interactions. Supplementary Box S1 provides further illustrative quotes.
Theme one: proactive continuity as a means of maintaining identity amid impending loss
Participants described a strong sense of identity; wanting to retain this featured across accounts. Participants described different ways in which they (or their loved one) attempted to retain identity, including getting a tattoo to raise awareness of their condition and engaging with dementia organisations. This theme aligned with primary care, with descriptions of participants wanting to remain involved in conversations about their health care, feel valued and listened to, and expressing a desire to be proactively monitored for cognitive deterioration, with a known healthcare worker giving external insight:
‘I tell everybody I’ve got Alzheimer’s, I talk about it. And I’ve actually had a tattoo on my arm, a forget-me-not tattoo on my arm. It’s a matter of fetching awareness.’ (A001, person with dementia)
‘When I went to see the lady doctor, she actually talked to me, she didn’t talk to [A007]. She didn’t ignore [A007], but she actually turned her chair, and talked to me, and let me answer. That was important. And that makes me feel more of a person.’ (A006, person with dementia)
Some participants embraced their disease identity, with one even naming his Alzheimer’s disease ‘Ali’, and others describing gradual acceptance. Accepting the disease identity seemed to bridge maintenance of prior identity and impending loss:
‘So I’ve had lots of opportunities and lots of fun, and Ali gets in the way now, with dates and times and remembering to phone people and do things.’ (A016, person with dementia)
People’s sense of identity, both prediagnosis and as a person with dementia, was juxtaposed with understanding of impending loss and that dementia will progress over time. This was underpinned by concerns about loss of insight, and how participants would know if their or their loved one’s dementia had worsened:
‘I nursed them [people with dementia] for 37 years, so I know what it’s like. I know exactly what it’s like and what happens … I know what’s coming.’ (A015, person with dementia)
‘When you’re thinking about these things, really you need somebody to talk to and one of the … what I just thought about then, was, will I know when I get bad?’ (A001, person with dementia)
Participants valued proactive contact and more time during consultations. There was a sense of needing certainty about where they were in terms of dementia progression, in the context of a longitudinal relationship with their GP. This desire for continuity echoed the desire to be held by, and known to, the primary care team. This was contextualised as nostalgia about how primary care used to be, with doctors and patients known to each other:
‘[About seeing a GP regularly] you'd know where you are, you know, whether things are improving, whether you're getting any better, or worse, or if we got some information. Whereas at the moment, she’s taking tablets just for the sake of taking them.’ (A007, spouse of person with dementia)
‘I hark back to when I used to go to the same doctor all the time. They knew you, they knew your family, they knew your brothers and sisters, they knew your whole history. And it was so much better … You don’t have to go over everything again and again and again, you know, the personal side of a practice is ... it’s crucial, I think.’ (A009, daughter of person with dementia)
Theme two: the paradox of healthcare support falling away as it becomes needed more
Participants desired proactive monitoring in primary care for certainty amid cognitive decline (theme 1). Paradoxically, healthcare support was seen to reduce post-diagnosis. Patients struggled to get referrals for diagnosis, then received brief memory team input, then felt abandoned again after this. As specialist support dropped away, primary care became the sole perceived source of ongoing help:
‘... that was probably April, May time maybe of 2020. She didn’t actually get a diagnosis until March of 2021, for a variety of reasons I think. Quite dismissive of the GP. We really had to push for it.’ (A013, daughter of person with dementia)
A006: ‘Well they discharged me from the memory clinic, didn’t they?’ (Person with dementia)
A007: ‘Yeah, because they handed it onto the doctors, yeah.’ (Spouse of person with dementia)
‘We’ve lost our specialist. We haven’t got a neurologist anymore. The neurologist has dropped off, the psychiatrist has dropped off and we’re left with [specialist centre] … But we know that we’ve been dropped off by the memory clinic now. They’ve been putting her on some tablets … so she’s on those now … they’ve dropped off the radar.’ (A019, spouse of person with dementia)
There was a sense that after diagnosis some people were ‘passed back’ to primary care. This aligns with the current UK context of referral to diagnostic services without ongoing specialist follow-up:
‘Because [place name] walk-in centre, you know, that part that dealt with the initial diagnosis, and gave us some medication, they just seem to have handed it all onto the doctors, and the doctors haven't done anything at all.’ (A007, spouse of person with dementia)
Participants largely found primary care for people with dementia inadequate. Even those offered post-diagnostic healthcare support felt it was generic, overwhelming, or poorly timed, leading to feelings of abandonment. A gap existed between the primary care provided and what participants needed. This aligned with theme one, where people desired proactive continuity to maintain their identity through a connection with a known healthcare provider:
‘It was maybe a little bit mindboggling, all the different pockets of support that were available.’ (A013, daughter of person with dementia)
‘... when [A020] was ill the GPs wouldn’t even come out to see her. They said no, we can only go and see people who are, is it bedridden, or whatever. I said, [A020] can’t even get out of bed, she was so bad. And in the end [doctor] came; I think he felt guilty. I sent a letter. I was one step off finding where I could send an official complaint and sending an official complaint to them ... You see, we want to keep on the side with the GPs, we don’t want to fall out with them, we need them.’ (A019, spouse of person with dementia)
Theme three: challenges with accessing and navigating the primary healthcare system
Participants found primary health care challenging to access and navigate, describing issues with getting appointments, privacy, having enough time, and complexity. This supported the concepts described in themes one and two, wanting to maintain identity and dignity, and remain known to the primary care team, but healthcare support becoming more difficult to access as dementia progressed:
‘Yeah, I really struggle, because I’m the one who normally makes the appointment, and I dread calling because you’re that long in a queue waiting. Sometimes you’re waiting that long and then the phone just drops, and then you’ve got to get back in the queue again.’ (A014, granddaughter of person with dementia)
‘... well when we got to reception, and [male name] went to book my name in, she asked him why I couldn’t come, and book in. And he told her that I’d got dementia, and that really annoyed me, because it was in front of everybody.’ (A006, person with dementia)
Participants described, through prior experience or knowledge (for example, healthcare roles and caregiving), learning to navigate and access the healthcare system more effectively. This insider knowledge was seen as crucial to access healthcare support needed:
‘And I do question if I wasn’t a trained healthcare professional who knew the inside workings of services, I don’t think we’d have had as much in the way of help. Because I wonder how people who don’t know, know what to ask, do you know what I mean?’ (A012, daughter of person with dementia)
‘Yeah. I’ll tell you what it is, until you meet it you have no knowledge of it, and you find little bits of knowledge are given to you.’ (A019, spouse of person with dementia)
Views differed about the impact of living in a socioeconomically disadvantaged area on health care. Some participants felt it made no difference. Others felt the area did not make a difference, but that their individual support network was central to ensuring successful navigation. Participants described charities, local organisations, and family as crucial informal support networks, but did not feel these were impacted by living in a socioeconomically deprived area:
‘I think even if I had a lot of money, I wouldn’t get a lot more care, because I don’t think there is a lot more care.’ (A001, person with dementia)
‘I live in [place name] ... It’s a very deprived town, but I don’t feel like it is, that’s ... it’s hard to describe … It certainly has its challenges but, I mean, thinking about my dad, in particular now, and as well as the rest of my family which is very large. You know, we still are able to take my dad out to visit a local park, take him out and get him some fresh air on the promenade at the seaside. It’s nice [place] to live in lots of ways, you know, there’s lots of difficulties for people, there’s an undercurrent in [place name] but, you know, it can be a really nice place.’ (A009, daughter of person with dementia)
Participants described frustrations with primary care, including basic questions about their dementia remaining unanswered, GPs being unaware of the diagnosis, and being forced to turn to other sources for support. In contrast, positive experiences with health care centred around being known and listened to:
Interviewer: ‘So if you did have a medical question about vascular dementia or you wanted some input about that how would you go about getting some advice?’
A014: ‘We just normally look on Google, don’t we? ... I know it’s not the right place in a lot of senses but if it’s not a really serious question we tend to Google quite a few things. But other than that the GP’s not even mentioned it, have they? ... They’ve not said oh, how are you getting on with your dementia? It’s like they’re not aware that she’s got it.’ (Granddaughter of person with dementia)
‘They [the Admiral nurse] came down to see me. And if I remember rightly, when I had a changeover from one nurse to another, she fetched the other nurse down to introduce her. So, when I ring her, I have an idea of who I’m talking to, if you like. I cannot fault the treatment I have off the Alzheimer nurses, no.’ (A001, person with dementia)
Overall, the sense from participants was needs were not being met by primary care regardless of area, and living in an area of deprivation presented additional challenges:
‘So my mum lived in the [place], which is a really deprived area, and I live in a more affluent area, and I see the difference from having been in both practices ... my practice seems more proactive, listening, they really promote the NHS app … I can look at my medications, I can look at my blood results, I can analyse them, I can think about my own health and wellbeing.’ (A003, daughter of person with dementia)
Theme four: uncertainty around where dementia health care sits within primary care
Participants described feeling dementia was treated differently to other chronic health conditions. This was compounded by the sense that participants recognised they were being called proactively for reviews of their other health conditions, but not for dementia:
‘I think it’s a bit like, if you have high cholesterol, if you have diabetes, you have all of these services offered to you, I think dementia should have that same setup.’ (A003, daughter of person with dementia)
‘The doctor that I know does do an annual check-up, round about Christmas time, I get wheeled in for a full MOT, as he calls it and we do talk about things but not specifically about that [dementia] diagnosis.’ (A002, person with dementia)
Dementia reviews were not clearly identified as such by primary care, meaning participants did not recognise these had happened. Dementia-related health care was taking place, but it was not being communicated clearly to patients, making it invisible to them. Medication reviews and physical health monitoring may have been part of holistic care for people with dementia, but they were not explicitly described as dementia-related primary care:
‘After 12 months a lady did come to see [A017] … she was connected to our doctor. She went through a questionnaire asking. I mean, I was answering the questions really, just asking in general how he was, you know. But I couldn’t say much because he was very, very, good, he hadn’t really changed at all.’ (A018, spouse of person with dementia)
Some participants felt frustrated at how service providers seemed to pick-and-choose which health conditions they engaged with, with concerns about memory being neglected. There was uncertainty around what GPs know about dementia:
‘You've got to tell the ‘doctor receptionist’ everything. And yet, any time they want you, like, they phoned up a couple of weeks ago, and they said, we need to make an appointment for [female name], because she needs a cardiovascular review. So, whenever they want to get hold of you, it’s got to be on their terms. Whereas, when you phone them, it’s on their terms, you've got to speak to the receptionist, and tell them what you're after.’ (A007, spouse of person with dementia)
‘I haven't spoken to as many GPs as I have other clinicians. It is maybe down to that. I am unsure ... really, I am unsure what they know.’ (A008, person with dementia)
Uncertainty stemmed from both the primary healthcare system and patients. The primary healthcare system’s proactive dementia care differed from that offered for other conditions. Patients uncertain about primary care team’s dementia knowledge or what could be done were less likely to book appointments for concerns about memory than for physical health issues:
‘We've had appointments about other stuff. I think the anxiety or depression or whatever is causing her to have a faster heartbeat or experiencing breathlessness so we were contacting the GP about those.’ (A005, son of person with dementia)
This suggests miscommunication may exist between patients and primary care clinicians regarding how dementia should be discussed. This concept links back to theme one, where participants embraced their disease identity as someone with dementia, wanting to remain ‘known’ within a healthcare context.